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Deluded though I am, I fancy myself a master at concealing my imperfections to achieve the illusion that Iâve got my act together. Ha. Like people donât know I draw on my eyebrows every morning before I go out to pick up the paper.
Sometimes, my efforts at innocent subterfuge come back to bite me. I had a leak in my refrigerator which caused an angry dark stain on my hardwood floor about five inches long and two inches wide. I called Mr. Fixit guy and he came out and âfixed it.â To hide the stain, I bought an attractive rug runner and placed it over the imperfection. Problem solved â sort of.
A week or two later, I accidentally slipped on the rug which slid sideways revealing a monster stain with a second âbabyâ stain growing beside it. My innocent ruse hid a more serious problem and now Iâve got to recall Mr. Fixit along with a floor refinisher. Meanwhile, the columns on my front porch have begun to rot. I was able to conceal the problem by placing plants around the base of the columns or objects dâart in front of them â an old shutter salvaged from a demolished home, a childâs Radio Flyer wagon I found at a garage sale â stuff like that. Suddenly, my porch looks like a garage sale itself. I halfway expect people to start knocking on my door bright and early on Saturday morning.
And of course, the biggest ruse of all â and one Iâm seriously rethinking â is my new wardrobe of wigs which became necessary when Chemotherapy stole my less than stellar locks. I now have five in all â a long black âCherâ wig I wear for fun or when I donât want to be recognized, a platinum blond one that makes me look like a hooker and three others I alternate according to my mood.Â
The other day, I spotted ABC morning anchor Robin Roberts on national TV, bald as the day she was born. What courage, I thought. Am I being too vain? Dare I go out in public au naturale?Â
Frankly, the wigs itch like crazy and Iâm always adjusting them.Â I had a relative who liked to take a nip now and then, and you could always tell because her wig would be down over her forehead or sitting sideways.
When out in public, I have to excuse myself to run to the restroom about every 30 minutes to check its position or jerk it off and scratch. I worry constantly about getting fleas when summer arrives. But, on the other hand, there is that "cone head" problem I was born with and I donât want to scare young children.Â
There will always be something muddying the waters in the river of life, and when put in perspective, my glitches are hardly earth shattering. Itâs not the big things that kill us, itâs the little things that drive us crazy.Â
Like Scarlet, I can tell myself I will worry about them tomorrow. Or I can address them one by one. Today I will deal with the refrigerator issue and maybe that will make me feel so good I will call a carpenter to fix the columns. Probably not.Â
Iâm pretty sure the hair thing will be the last problem to confront. Â Â
Emily Jones is a retired journalist who edits a blog for bouncing baby boomers racing retirement.Â She welcomes comments at www.deludeddiva.com.View more articles in: